The don'ts of online dating

This is in particular posed to the males who normally find it a bit difficult to contact women.

• Once you have a women in mind and you are on the verge of emailing her, first think what you are going to say in your emails. This is not the time to write about your tragic life as a kid.

• Dont write hectic paragraphs and long pages describing yourself. Keep your mail short and to the point and your job is to listen to the women cause that is what they want.

• Keep your mails short and sweet and end your mail with a question to her. Questions keeps the conversations going and growing.

• Keep the sex talk for some other time. Most men just have sex on their minds and you wont get far with a date online.

• Refrain from talking about sex as this is not the time to bring it up. Keep it in cause you dont the person well enough to talk about sex.

• However you do get women out there that will talk about sex first. When a women talks about sex first then most men will take this as an opportunity. Dont be fooled, think it out clearly and be subtle with your response. The way women talk about sex and the way men talk about sex is completely different. Take heed!

• When creating a profile most people lie. This goes for men and women. There is no point in lying cause this will come out later and you will be broken.

• If you find a nice women and you lied, she will definitely find out and its not worth it losing the one.

• You dont need to lie to impress any women. Focus on your strengths and if dont have any then look for them.

• When you are in touch with a women then dont spam her with mails from you. You must realise that person is busy at times and wont reply exactly when you are free.

• If you are in the early stages then take it slow and get to know each other slowly and you have to decide on the pace.

• Force yourself to be disciplined. If you feel like sending her more emails when you already sent 2 then hold back. Dont make a nuisance of yourself. Let her feel that she misses your mails too.

• And dont send her those pass along chain mails that you get from your mate. She would prefer something personal from you.
  

• What do you do when you get to many responses?

• I bet it will be damn nice feeling when you get 100 responses from women cause they are chasing you and your chance of achieving success is great but be careful.

• If you get loads of response then choose which ones you would like to reply to. Don't reply to all cause you will get confused and mixed up between the women and this is where it will all backfire.

• Dont push for a date immediately. If the women asks you then tread carefully.

• It is ok to ask a women on a date after one week of making contact. If you ask to soon then she will feel uncomfortable and if you take to long she will wonder what's up with you. So you must get the timing right.

• Dont hand out your contact details and this goes for the women too.