Speed dating tips for speed daters!
This is one area where I see speed daters make mistakes with conversation topics and the like.
Men and women basically dont know what to do when they arrive at a venue. More so they stress on what they are going to wear for the speed date.
For
the men, this is speed dating whereby you must find a match or
someone you like, dont come with the intention of being laid please.
This is a serious business. I see this way to often and this appeals
to some guys and not all guys.
So what should you wear?
Do not hire a suit guys and please dont wear a ball gown ladies. This is a relaxed environment.
Guys, go for something blue to wear because this emphasises faithful, stable, long term and this is something that can impress a female. Before you leave the house, stop a couple of women in the street and ask them if you look ok, please.
Ladies, anything you wear is great
Watch each others body language. Dont fold your arms and dont chew gum or bite your finger nails. These are the major turn offs.
Guys, when you put on scent, please do not throw the whole bottle of cologne over your body. Put on something light and not too much.
Ladies, do not plaster your face with make up.
You have 4 minutes to chat up the hottie. So what you going to say?
Prepare this before you leave home this is more so for the guys. You must realise that females think and do things differently to guys so guys, please do your homework.
At speed dating, all guys will open with a line that says Hi, how are you? ; what do you do?; where you from? The ladies too, most probably.
This is the most common opening lines. Tell the prospect something different for goodness sake. This is not the time to be shy
The opening line is sometimes not the clincher, its what you say after that. Because what you say to the prospect is going to stick in their minds. And please tell all the ladies something different.
Like what?
Do a search on google for this, come on.do your homework..!!
And please dont bore the person how you run a multi million dollar company, that does not score points.